found some results, actually surprisingly quick. i reloaded just a few times, probably around 10, and then got an american player, which is very odd since i don't believe i've gotten anything other than italian players in the several years i've managed Lecce.
Here's the announcement, nothing special so far other than there's an American along with the Italians:
Another picture of his stats:
Now here's where I'm pretty sure it's my son, he instantly has me under "favored personnel", none of the other new youth have this. Note that he does have Italian as his second nationality.
And the coaching report on my "son". One to watch for!
I do play with fake names (played with both fake and real before, started one with fake names and got into it so just kept going), so that could explain him not sharing my name. This is as close of a son as i've seen so far though!