Andy, the fact is you know what LLM's about. You know the Rules posted in the Forum Header, particularly the bit that says "without the need for tipping,cheating or bragging", and the tipping bit specifically includes taking
or giving tips, and that specifically includes posting and visiting the likes of GPTG and T&TT.
You've always been welcomed here even when you've sailed mighty close to the wind with your interpretation of LLM, and indeed you played in the LLM Clan for a while.
Now, as for signing youth players, it's your game, play it as you will, as long as the players are found using LLM ethics I see no reason why you can't, but posting in the "unclean" Fora is never acceptable for a regular LLaMa.
As for "incrowds", there's none. The people who cast stones tend to be new guys who're attempting to fit in, unless there's actual evidence of "impropriety", in which case the regulars will let loose too.