You have
no idea who you're talking to, eh?
It's already been pointed out that the average age of the forum is nearly 30, the oldest being over 50. Most of us have lived life fuller than you'd ever imagine and are taking the opportunity of using maturity, marriage, kids and lumbago to enable us
not to have to endure meaningless nights out and vacuous relationships with "girls" and, far from going outside our front doors, spending the evenings with our feet up and enjoying a nice cup of tea.
You haven't been slated, Neil...you've been tolerated more than the majority of users who question the right and true way