Is this girl using me? Or does she like me?

retired_kathydonatto · 10-14-2007, 09:10 PM

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Originally posted by theboydonegood:
Grow some balls and ask her out ffs. If you are truthful with yourself the only reason that you have this 'friendship' with her is because you want to **** her. So if you ask her out and she says no it means you can stop wasting your time.

If you are truly serious about just being friends and you are as close as you make even if you ask her out and she says know a good friendship would recover - yeah it would be weird for a bit but hey thats life.

I say again the only reason you are doing so much for her is because you fancy her, if you knew she was not interested in you there is no way you'd be doing any of the good deeds you listed above, no way on this earth.

retired_kathydonatto · 10-14-2007, 09:11 PM

do the above or stop whining, simple choice.

retired_nomorebeachball · 10-14-2007, 09:11 PM

FFS, ask her out...

marynot · 10-14-2007, 09:11 PM

buy her a d!ldo, how big are her tits?

think that covers everything now

Using you btw

retired_Frappin' · 10-14-2007, 09:13 PM

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Originally posted by atvkwkad:
she's ****ing your dad/brother/mum

wrong, she's doing all three and you next door neighbour

but yeah theboydonegood is pretty much spot on. Ask her out, if it doesn't work, you'll get over it.

retired_zachw023 · 10-14-2007, 09:14 PM

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Originally posted by theboydonegood:
Grow some balls and ask her out ffs. If you are truthful with yourself the only reason that you have this 'friendship' with her is because you want to **** her. So if you ask her out and she says no it means you can stop wasting your time.

If you are truly serious about just being friends and you are as close as you make even if you ask her out and she says know a good friendship would recover - yeah it would be weird for a bit but hey thats life.

I say again the only reason you are doing so much for her is because you fancy her, if you knew she was not interested in you there is no way you'd be doing any of the good deeds you
listed above, no way on this earth.

OK I know all that, but the way I am thinking about this is, she must know I fancy her and so IS basically using me cos she knows I like her.

I dunno, I am so confused on this.

retired_venomm · 10-14-2007, 09:15 PM

Trying to understand how girls think :thdn: totally pointless.

Just ask her out. If she says 'yes' then she is using you for sure.

retired_zachw023 · 10-14-2007, 09:15 PM

And I don't wanna risk losing a decent friendship either. I don't think the friendship wuld recover if she said no.

DaydreamJay · 10-14-2007, 09:16 PM

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Originally posted by Bugsy Malone:
<BLOCKQUOTE>Originally posted by theboydonegood:
Grow some balls and ask her out ffs. If you are truthful with yourself the only reason that you have this 'friendship' with her is because you want to **** her. So if you ask her out and she says no it means you can stop wasting your time.

If you are truly serious about just being friends and you are as close as you make even if you ask her out and she says know a good friendship would recover - yeah it would be weird for a bit but hey thats life.

I say again the only reason you are doing so much for her is because you fancy her, if you knew she was not interested in you there is no way you'd be doing any of the good deeds you
listed above, no way on this earth.

OK I know all that, but the way I am thinking about this is, she must know I fancy her and so IS basically using me cos she knows I like her.

I dunno, I am so confused on this. </BLOCKQUOTE>

well don't give her the chance to use you then.

retired_zachw023 · 10-14-2007, 09:19 PM

THats the point I don't really know if she is, or maybe she likes me cos she tells me alot of stuff and I am the first person she rings when she is down and stuff.

Women are seriously complicated.

Is this girl using me? Or does she like me?

Grab a beer, sit back and relax.

Is this girl using me? Or does she like me?