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Originally posted by msteuk:
Fell out of love? Wouldn't bank on it. I've been in that situation before when a heart to heart seems to settle things and clear the air, but a day or two later the feelings are just as strong.
But that girl is my gf now, so I guess the moral of the story is that it might still work out. Or that I'm a jammy git. Not sure.
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OK ok I wasn't in love love with her. Why I wrote in inverted commas. I guess I do care for her, but I don't think its love. It's kind of like when you see someone one you fancy and you like to get with that girl and you go out together and you being to fall for her. Like that feeling. I can't be in love with her because I don't really have that established love and trust thing going.
I don't think there is a chance really. I'm not going to go in to meet her expecting something to happen. Guess your a jammy get.
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Originally posted by Neil Purvis:
<BLOCKQUOTE>I realised that there is no way we can be together and no point in spoiling the friendship we have.
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Your friendship is based on you loving her and her just seeing you as a friend. Can't see how that will work.
Don't buy the 'fell out of love' thing either. </BLOCKQUOTE>
Well like I said before I not in love love. Yeah I care for her, but I can't see it as love yet. I think she does care for me as a close friend. I mean last night I said jokinly, that I will no longer do these favours for you and that I will stop being your friend like this. She replied, with how she knows I put in alot of effort for her and she wouldn't know what to do if I wasn't there.
I followed up with, "what would you do if I never pick your calls up and didn't ring you back and ignored you?" She replied, that she would ring me and ask whats happen, and that she would find out what the problems was, she stated she would keeping ringing till she got answer.
So I think she does care for me.
I mean I do agree that this relationship is strange, especially between a girl and a guy. Which is why I wanted to find out if she liked me. I love to have a girls view on this but none of the girls on this forum as yet to read this thread or replied.
If in the future that it does not work out then so be it. I don't relie on her anything anyways so I don't have much to loose. I can probably move on and get over it much quicker then she would.
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Originally posted by Tim Madisun:
It's not exactly closure, but fair enough :thup:
Might I recommend that you try and get laid somewhere else, or better still, get her to matchmake for you. Mention that seeing as you're such good friends and all, she should try and set you up with a friend or two?
That'll put the cat amongst the pigeons, I'll bet.
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None of her friends are that nice to be honest. I think she's was the only I liked from the bunch. If we do meet new people I'm sure she would put in a good word for me.
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