Bugsy Malone

Well I dont want to leave things half finnish like that. If she says no then it will be awakard and weird me going back to finnish it off.

mark24cde

leverage

The_Fish

no linkage yet?

Neil Purvis

Still baffling and I don’t get why she’s coming across as using you when you’re being a bit selfish yourself.

I’ll come round and do your DIY, but not if we’re just friends.

Bugsy Malone

If you read the whole thread it's not about DIY. I always end up paying for her, meals, cinema, drinks, I drove to newscastle for her, she always gets me to do things, meet me here, meet me there, I really want this, want that. I need help with this, with that, will you do this for me, do that. Everytime she gets upset she rings me for talks, Im always on the phone with her. That type of thing.
I've looked out for her when things got bad, had her back on some things. Did a load crap for her.

At first she was a close friend I had no hesitation in doing them now I it's like she snaps her fingers and I am running around for her, like this DIY thing. The more I spend with her the more I like her, so it's gotten to the situation now where I fancy her. I dont really know if she feels the same. If not she is blatantly using me which I am not having now.

Bugsy Malone

Sorry I had no hesitation in doing them<STRIKE>now </STRIKE> then*

Neil Purvis

But she’s snapping her finger and you’re running round after her when you’re not involved I can only imagine what it will be like if you did get together (you probably won’t).

Sex isn’t worth that mouch.

Bugsy Malone

Yeah at first yes cos I was friend to her. She asked for favours I did them for her as a friend. We do have a close friendship cos she talks to me about alot of things, almost gf/bf like.

But now it's getting too much and it feels like she is using me.

Tim Madisun

Is this still going one?

Bugsy - Man up and get an answer already!

Tim Madisun

Oh, and post a pic of her too. I figure we've invested enough in your drama for that.