retired_rukia-chan

I came in to say 'like a mature, responsible adult' but what Herman said is good enough.

retired_assy22

On reflection maturity fits better, so wHs

retired_dbaguado

sh@g her best mate

retired_musiclova31

just do it ffs. yes it'll hurt her (if you're right about her feelings - chances are she's probably sitting around right now wondering how to get rid of her deadshit boyfriend who is such a pussy that he posts his relationship problems on a football gaming messageboard tbh). yes you'll feel like an arsecunt afterwards. but also, yes you'll be better off in the long term, and no keeping the status quo to avoid hurting her isn't a good idea as you'll just end up hurting her more when you get so sick and tired of the relationship that you grow to despise her.

retired_ehoff15

just demand to have anal with her. 95% chance she will say no and tell you to f**k off and stay out of her life. If she is one of those 5% that said yes, then IMO you should marry her.

retired_adriana6

suggest a threesome (2 girls obviously) she'll either dump you, or you'll have the time of your life and then dump her anyway

retired_heather

I've done the wait & see if it passes thing, it didn't. it's been going on a good couple of weeks, just don't get that feeling when seeing her anymore. it's all a bit autopilot, which is not what you want from a relationship when you're 21. the only option left is to talk about it, and maybe even suggest a couple of weeks off from seeing eachother. who knows, maybe the feelings return. after all, distance makes the heart grow fonder.

I guess it's going to come down hard on her, but we've kind of had a conversation - maybe even arguement - about seeing other people, what the difference is between love and being in love, etc, the other day. was after seeing control, where the topic is very present. so for all I know she's just waiting for me to pop a line out of my sleeve.

retired_heather

she's the kind of girl that would be shocked and horrified because I've suggested it, be mad for one night, and all would be forgiven in the morning. she'd then suggest doggy style to make up for it, as she would feel like failing me otherwise.

retired_sedimohasel

Read her this thread :thup:

retired_ehoff15

she's the kind of girl that would be shocked and horrified because I've suggested it, be mad for one night, and all would be forgiven in the morning. she'd then suggest doggy style to make up for it, as she would feel like failing me otherwise. </BLOCKQUOTE>

close enough. marry her