retired_g_stull

Worst idea in the world. You're setting her up for a massive fall - please tell me that's a joke!

No easy way to do it, so just man up and get it done. "We need to talk, this really isn't working out as I thought it would".

retired_bemesel

What about if you're married? How do you go about it then?

retired_assy22

ouch, that's a bit strong, no? I'm in the same university, and we've even got some classes together next term. don't think I'd be able to just ignore her completely. she's a lovely girl, and I'd really like to remain friends. on the other hand I understand that remaining friends often includes casual sex, which is not a good idea when/if she's still in love with me.

I doubt the seriousness in the ignore comments, seeing as we've been together for over a year, have shared stuff, etc. anyway - not an option. </BLOCKQUOTE>

I went down the ignore path full well knowing that I'd have to see her pretty much every day of the next year at the very least, it's difficult but fully possible. Preferable to her thinking there's still some hope, and I don't think you'll ever get the whole breakup out of your head if you went out of your way to maintain some semblance of friendship. Don't agonize over it, it's going to be a lot worse for her than it is for you.

retired_Billywasjr

All my break ups are pretty easy, just put rat poison in their tea and bury their corpse under the patio.

retired_littlegoldielocks

i love rat poison in pills. gets your proper wrecked. good times.

retired_sherrijacobson

Never been in the situation

retired_Frappin'

Is that what you're planning Pickles.

Then make a huge post about it in the Singles Thread.

7/10 :thup:

retired_velvet01

hmm, suppose it's similar to a divorce, but how do you break up after 4 years, joing bank accounts and the purchase of a flat.

surely it's better to just continue the status quo?

retired_corzawoodja

Have never got far enough with anyone for breaking up to mean all that much.

retired_sherrijacobson

Make sure you get your presents first