retired_lantern2camping

I'm guessing the non-knocked up one would need to legally adopt to have any responsibility ? Married in a civil ceremony, does "gay marriage" mean nothing any more !!! </BLOCKQUOTE>


came too late for r fella though

they really do have a hard neck though, he done them a favour and he was told it wouldnt come back to haunt him, yet here he is now having to fork out money, i hope he wins in the end, although he is a bit of an idiot tbh

so they didnt go through a fertility clinic, i guess he must have impregnated her the good old fashion way then, perhaps her partner is a bit jealous of this fact

retired_ks reddy

t'other side of the story.

retired_traci29

i would probably emigrate to cambodia if this happened to me.

Average Joe

Any facts on this or are you just spouting your own thoughts? </BLOCKQUOTE>

It's a known fact that CSA payments are higher due to all the absent fathers who cannot be tracked.

My stepdad had a job for 12 months last year that was cash in hand which he told the CSA about & they said he couldn't pay because they wouldn't know how much he was meant to be submitting each month. Fast forward 12 months & they now want 6 months of those 12 months he didn't pay over the next two months. this is because all outstanding debts have to be paid within 12 months or something.

He rings up & explains that he cannot afford those payments & gets told there is nothing they can do.

So for the next two months it's going to be rather **** in my house because the CSA take their money before everything else & after that it's first come first served.

Stepdad basically had a chat with his boss explaining he may have to quit his job as he cannot afford to work for him. Would be better off claiming benefits like his ex-wife (who hasn't worked a day in 16 years but has happily sponged off my family & the government) because at least that way we wouldn't be running at a loss each month.

As it is I am stumping up the shortfall to pay for my step brother & sisters who I have never seen & will likely never see.

So that's why the CSA are **** poor.

Rant over.

retired_Fit

Both his kids his according to that then. Also, mentioned in BBC article that he donated cause

That kind of bit him a little, eh ? Maybe he and his wife should go for custody and try for child support from the biological mother

retired_Fit

I wonder how people end up getting into a mess like this. I dont think people look at the bigger picture sometimes

retired_justin05

Er?.. </BLOCKQUOTE>

Jesus even Bert understood.

retired_traci29

i think the real problem here is stupid people being allowed to have children.

retired_Fit

I see

I believe you

Not named on the birth certificate, if he denies being the father do the CSA have any power or would the woman have to sue ?

retired_lantern2camping

you would think she/they would chase up her ex lesbian lover then for some of the money, after all she was the mums official partner, she seems to be getting away lightly.