Why do I always have the most wanted squad in the game

43 players and 17 listed as wanted, with Arsenal and Chelsea after 6 of my players alone. Having scouted extensively I know that there are players of comparable quality and potential at other clubs yet no one is sniffing around them. Why the hell not!!!
Same annoying crap as 07.
Step 1: I sign a player with potential to be a good premiership player
Step 2: 1 year later they are wanted by at least 5 clubs including big clubs who just by looking at their squad don't even need the player
Step 3: I reject bids of paltry amounts
Step 4: Player demands transfer
Step 5: Player joins big club at hot prospect despite being a squad player for me
Step 6: Player rots in the reserves of said big club
Repeat ad nauseum year in year out to the point of tearing my hair out.
It even happens when I have turned my club into a title challenging club. It feels like the AI clubs have a choice of 'Scout Human controlled teams' to assign their scouts and that's the first thing they do. So goddamn aggravating
And what's with the ridiculously low bids? I mean FFS the guy is worth 1.9m and has the potential to be a world class player what in the hell makes the AI repeatedly bid 1.8m for him. And why is it when I do the same approach the players never get frustrated at not being allowed to move clubs??
I've said it before and I'll say it again the Human manager is treated differently in the game when it comes to transfers/player behaviour. SI can deny it all they want but it's been like this for years. AI clubs signing players for lower contracts than I offer. AI clubs having lower transfer bids accepted. AI club players not bitching about first team football with the regularity mine do. It's one giant conspiracy I tells ya
It feels good to vent